1.2 Being Kiwi — what connects us

Unity says Kia ora!

What does it actually mean to be a Kiwi? It's not just about where you were born. Let's find out what connects all of us who call Aotearoa home.

📖Being Kiwi story

Read this story together — take turns reading a paragraph each if you like.


Unity walked through a busy Saturday market. Around her, families were sharing food from every corner of the world — dumplings, hangi, samosas, fried bread, pavlova. People were speaking English, te reo Māori, Samoan, Mandarin, Hindi. Kids were running between stalls, laughing in every language.

"Are all these people Kiwis?" a young sparrow asked Unity.

"Yes," said Unity. "Every single one."

New Zealand is home to people from many different cultures, countries, and backgrounds. Māori are the tangata whenua — a te reo Māori phrase that means the people of the land. They were here first, and their language, stories, and traditions are woven into the identity of our whole country.

People have also come to New Zealand from the Pacific Islands, from Britain and Europe, from Asia, from Africa, from South America, and from everywhere in between. Some families have been here for generations. Others arrived last year. Being a Kiwi is not about where you came from — it is about where you belong.

Some things connect almost all New Zealanders. We tend to believe in fairness — that everyone should get a fair go, regardless of who they are. We look out for each other, especially when things get hard. We love the outdoors, even when the weather is terrible. And we share a responsibility to care for this land and each other.

Our differences make us interesting. Our shared values make us one country.

💬Talk and think

Questions to explore together

There are no right or wrong answers here. Let everyone share their thoughts — you might be surprised what comes up.


  1. What does being a Kiwi mean to you — is it a feeling, a place, or something else?

  2. What is something special about your family's culture or where your family comes from?

  3. How can having people from many different backgrounds make a country stronger?

🔍Explore more

Take a few minutes to read through these facts together. Just talk about anything that surprises you or that you'd like to know more about.

Moari

Tangata whenua

— the people of the land, here first

Official languages

English, te reo Māori, and New Zealand Sign Language

Pacific connection

NZ has one of the world's largest Pasifika communities

Where Kiwis come from

Over 200 ethnicities call New Zealand home

Shared values

Fairness, caring for others, love of the outdoors

What connects us

This land, and our responsibility to each other

🤝Do it together - What connects us?

This works best when everyone gets a turn — little ones included. Set aside about ten minutes and do it properly.


  1. Sit together as a family.

  2. Each person shares one thing about their background, culture, or heritage — something that makes your family who you are.

  3. Then, as a group, find three things you all have in common as Kiwis. They can be simple things — places you love, foods you eat, things you believe in.

  4. Talk about this: how can two people be completely different and still both be Kiwi? What does that tell you about what being a Kiwi really means?

⭐Unity's takeaway

Being Kiwi means belonging to a country with many cultures and backgrounds — connected by shared values, a shared land, and responsibility for each other.